Showing posts with label pay it forward. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pay it forward. Show all posts
Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Paying it forward 2013

The closer we get to Thanksgiving, the giddier I become. At our house, we try to do one good deed a day the whole year, but we ramp it up near the holidays. It's important to pay it forward and  not pay it back, because we want the goodwill, good intentions, happiness to catch on like a virus!! Let's face it, everything nowadays always holds a note of gloom, whether it's the news, or day-to-day nonsense. We need to combat that!!

What's the cure for the winter blues? Doing something for another person just because. No strings attached! There's not a better feeling in the world than getting he warm fuzzies after you've made someone's day. My project that goes on year-round, is to collect any used "play condition" cloth diapers, wash them and pass them on to needy Mamas. I sometimes give them a little lesson on how to use the diapers and what things to stuff them with(kitchen towels work, and socks too in a pinch). It feels good to know that these Mamas won't have to choose between putting food on the table or diapering their newborn. Sometimes, I had more Mamas asking for diapers than I had diapers!! It's a labor of love that I hope I can continue throughout the years.

"Wheel Chair In Hospital" by sakhorn38 from FreeDigitalPhotos.net
Lisa's gifting again!

In addition to this project, I always pick a person to do something nice for daily. It can be nothing more than stopping to ask them how they' are doing, or sending a package of something that they really wanted, or complimenting someone on a job well done. This year, I've picked my recipient. She doesn't know that I'm up to something, as she's living with a disability and forgets things sometimes, but I see her at Mass and always try to help her caretakers out when they're there. They're always grateful that I sit in the same pew and don't ask if they need help, I just give it. Well, since I sit behind her, I've seen the condition of her wheelchair bag, and I've decided to gift her a new one anonymously. Maybe leave it with a note on her wheelchair when she's not in it. I'm notorious for stealthy sneaking, even when in plain sight, so it shouldn't be too hard...albeit funny, as I'm sneaking around in church. Ha! I'm positively giddy about it and can't wait to carry it out. Wish me luck!

So, what does his have to do with you? I challenge you to Pay it Forward, whether by doing a small good deed daily, a big project, or a stealthy good-deed drive by. The prize for this: warm fuzzies that will catch on and multiply until it's a virus everyone wants to catch. When the deed is done, come back here and report it!! Let us know what you've done, who was the recipient, and how it was received. Just remember the rules: don't expect anything back from recipient, don't break the bank, have fun, and share win everyone you know not in order to get a pat on the back, but with the sole intent to get them to do it too. That's it!! Simple, huh? Pay it Forward 2013 starts now!! :)

You know what to do!! Tell us all about your Pay it Forward adventures. Let's make this a new family tradition!! Have fun !! 


Photo "Wheel Chair In Hospital" by sakhorn38 from FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Monday, September 9, 2013

That guy

Even though you're not asking for it, here's this Mama's daily advice: Be someone other than THAT guy.

C'mon, you know him! He is old, young, smart, dumb, tall, short, well-dressed, as dumb as a box of rocks, in a wife beater and/or in a business suit. Heck, he can even be a she!  Either way, they've  got that "screw you, here's to me" mentality. This makes their first name THAT and their last name GUY!

Wait...ummm....oh.....Yep! A visual has registered and you are now picturing that guy. (Hopefully its not you! LOL)

Part of the problem is that these people don't know when they're being 'that' much of a douchebag! 

"Why yes, I'd love for you to pull in to the only diesel tank in the gas station...when you're driving a Civic (Clearly not a Diesel engine). Never mind the 5 open gas pumps that you could've pulled into. But, no. You chose this one. And, this diesel that I'm driving, yeah, guess what?! It can't run on gas, which makes this pump (hmm...the one that you're at) our only source of fuel. So, yes, that IS a glare in my eye while I listen to a screaming baby is in the backseat while waiting for your...self. I'm disgusted that your mama didn't teach you how to be considerate and know what's going on around you. I'm disgusted that your lazy butt is even lazier than I thought!"

But, no that's not for you. You're better than that! Don't be that guy. 

Be the guy who waves on a two way road while an oncoming motorist passes you. Make them wonder "WTF? I wonder why they are so happy" Be the guy that takes a moment at the grocery store. A moment that notices that the guy behind you only has a handful of items. Do something nice, let him go before you so you don't keep him waiting with your overflowing cart. 

It's called kindness. Kill people with it.